A free tool for people who text themselves out of getting laid.

You know that moment.

They’re warm. The vibe is there. You might have even got the half naked selfie, your pretty much in..

Then your thumbs clock in overtime.

“hey just checking in lol”
“wait did I say too much”
“ok last one I swear”
“haha ignore that”

Congrats. You didn’t get ghosted by them. You got ghosted by you.

What Ive built is an  AI dating coach integrated into your text messaging/SMS to help keep the vibe flowing

 

What it does

Sits between you and your SMS dating life (using the popular and free phone service GV (G00G13 V01C3) , because US SMS is a compliance maze and this is the cheap workaround)
Helps you draft replies that sound like a person who has options, not a person refreshing their phone every 90 seconds
Comes with PUA-leaning defaults if you want that energy
Lets you teach the AI who you are (age, work, interests) system-wide

You can sculpt how it handles each person your talking to as well.
Remembers each conversation (and you can edit that memory when it gets weird)
Gives you drafts so you can send something that doesn’t smell like panic

What it is not

It is not real time carrier SMS. It is a hack.

Scraping / syncing / sending takes longer.

If you’re technical, you can get it running on a cheap Linux VPS and an LLM account for damn near free

The hardest part is remote login to GV (VPS + VNC). After that, it’s a breeze.

If GV updates there web ui selectors die, hopefully the community patches them. Open source exists for a reason.

Who this is for

You write novels when “sounds good” would have worked
You have lost nights you were winning because your follow-up needed a follow-up
You want coaching energy without paying $300/hr for someone to say “wait longer”

Who this is not for

Anyone looking for a polished SaaS with a ToS longer than your last situation ship
Anyone who needs carrier-grade instant delivery
Anyone who thinks AI should auto-send their entire personality unsupervised (you still hit send)

This does require a server and technical skills to get up and running detailed instructions are in the repo. Those that arent technically inclined and have the discretionary funds can hire me to install it for them.

SMS wingman is free and opensource: Download SMS Wingman

If it helps you get a date: tip, donate, or hire us